Dom Confidence Workshop with Pamela Blonde

Pamela Blonde is a Scottish dominatrix, model, and activist with a multifaceted approach to the erotic industry. Passionate about pleasure education and sexual liberation, she explores power dynamics, fetish, and intimacy through her work. As an advocate for sex workers’ rights, she is actively involved with Scotland for Decrim, pushing for the full decriminalization of sex work to ensure safety, autonomy, and legal protections for workers across the industry.

Pamela’s career spans across performance, modelling, and education, using her platform to challenge stigma and promote sex-positive discourse. She collaborates with leading brands in the sexual wellness industry, including Snail Vibe, Love Not War, Lovehoney, Tenga, and Hanx, bringing her expertise to product development, advocacy, and public engagement. Her work seamlessly bridges the gap between activism and commercial partnerships, ensuring that pleasure, empowerment, and ethics remain at the forefront.

Whether through content creation, public speaking, or her hands-on involvement in sex work activism, Pamela continues to push boundaries and create space for informed, inclusive conversations around sexuality. As a dominatrix and educator, she is dedicated to dismantling shame and reshaping narratives around power, desire, and erotic expression.

The Workshop

Stepping into the role of Dominant in BDSM can be daunting. Many people find the idea of being Dominant with a partner enticing, but struggle to find the confidence to take control and lead a scene. This seems particularly common amongst women and femme identifying people, who exist in a world that positions us as submissive and teaches us not to be assertive.

This workshop is a chance to explore different ways of accessing dominance, how to apply your own style to a scene and to help you find your voice as a Domme. It will be a fun, interactive approach, with various discussions and activities to help unlock your potential.

Please Note:

• This session is suitable for over 18s only